A Relationship? Or a Fling? 7 Ways to tell what (S)he Wants
“I don't know where he stands in our relationship but I'm glad he still thinks I'm girlfriend material. He still wants to have sex with me.”
Being wanted for sex is not a sign that you are wanted as a girlfriend/boyfriend. There are plenty of people who may want to have sex with you yet have no desire to have a committed relationship. Sex is not an indication of love or commitment.
7 BEHAVIORS THAT INDICATE INTEREST
If sex is not an indicator of love and desire for a committed relationship, then what is? There are 7 basic behaviors that you will help you see whether someone is looking for a romantic relationship, or a fling. These apply across the board, regardless of sexual preferences.
You spend time together: Not just 30 minutes for a quickie or a hot night of passion. You spend lazy days together, running errands, talking a walk. When plans are made, they are kept. You are seen in public together. Everyone needs to reschedule occasionally, but if it is a pattern it is a problem.